Susan asks…
Please help me with my Self-confidence and self-esteem!?
What is the best ways, tips, quotes to build self-confidence and especially self-esteem? I’m being so paranoid i’m starting to loosing my friends. Please help! Any good ways??
Sally Smith answers:
Honestly, just think positively, constantly…
“Dream as if you will live forever, live as if you will die today.”
“Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.”
Honestly, you’ve only got one life, what have you got to lose? (:
Do things your way, make yourself happier…
Jenny asks…
what are good confidence quotes for girls?
im looking for cute self confidence quotes.. stuff like
im sorry for changing, im sorry it had to be this way, believe me whrn i say its easier to pretend, but i wont apologize for who i am
or
im pretty but im not beautiful, i sin but im not a devil , im good but im not a devil -marylin monroe
or
do t worry when a girl cares too much, worry when she starts to not give a fuck
or
do t ever think ur nothing because somwhere along the time theres goin to be someone who thinka your everythinf
excuse my typing errors, my computer is being stupid. plz help 
Sally Smith answers:
“Beauty is not in the face, Beauty is a light in the heart”.
“Through experience we learn to grow, in growing we learn to give, in giving we learn to love, and in loving we learn the real essence of life”.
I hope these quotes can help you:)
George asks…
My friend said this? “Botox/silicone= beauty & self confidence.” What do you think about it?
Full Quote : “Botox/silicone= beauty & self confidence. If god truly wanted us to be happy with our natural bodies he wouldn’t have made plastic surgeons.”
How do you feel about this?
Please don’t be overly rude, she’s entitled to her opinion just as you are yours.
Sally Smith answers:
I’m sorry but I’ve seen quite a few women with botox and it looks like they can’t even move their face….and they have no facial expressions when they talk to you….. So no to me it does not make you look beautiful.
Carol asks…
Helen asks…
whats your favorite self confidence quote?
Sally Smith answers:
“What other people think of me is NONE of my BUSINESS.”
— hehe. This quote really boosts up my self esteem. 
John asks…
Is there a fine variance between self-belief and self-confidence or are the two phrases fully interchangeable?
Do please explain as per your own understanding rather than quote from dictionary etc. that I can of course refer to on my own.
Sally Smith answers:
That’s very interesting…
The two are, in my opinion, interchangeable, but self-belief seems to lend itself more to deep, core, abstract faith and trust. To me, self-confidence, though very similar, is slightly more of a physical manifestation, a determination.
If I say to myself, “I believe in my ability to –”, for some reason I feel it and have faith in it in a different way than if I say, “I am confident that I can –”.
I feel that I can inflate or mask or exaggerate the self-confidence in a way that I can’t do with self-belief — the latter is closer to the core of how much faith I truly do or do not have in myself without false pretense.
And I’m discovering this as I go along, so please forgive if it’s nonsensical…