Self Esteem Quiz

This questionnaire is designed to measure how you see yourself, or feel about yourself. It will help you determine if your self-esteem is strong or might need a boost. Please read and answer each item as accurately and honestly as you can, by choosing how much you feel the statement applies to you. There are no right or wrong answers. Do not spend too much time on any one statement. If you are not sure, base your answer on what you emotionally feel, more than what you think to be true.

The rating scale is as follows:

0 False, not at all true
1 Slightly true
2 Mainly true
3 Very true

I feel that people would not like me if they really knew me well

I feel that I am a very competent and capable person

I think that I am a dull or boring person

I feel that I get pushed around more than others

I feel that I am an attractive person

I am afraid that I will appear foolish or stupid to others

I know that I am a good person

My sense of value as a person depends greatly on what others think of me

I have trouble asking others for favours and tend to apologize a lot

I berate myself for saying or doing the wrong thing, calling myself negative names, like stupid

I think I make a good impression on others

I would do something against my better judgment rather than risk another persons disapproval / displeasure

When I look at myself in the mirror, I see only my flaws

I look for the good in people and situations

I think of how my life would improve if only I were smarter or better looking

I graciously accept compliments and praise instead of tossing them aside

I live with a great deal of shame about myself

I blame myself when things go wrong

I feel of equal value to others even though they may be richer, more powerful or more skilled than myself

I devalue my positive qualities and diminish my accomplishments

I lack confidence in situations

I am at ease meeting new people

I often feel inadequate

I have many flaws that prevent me from being happy

I am able to assert my views, wants and needs with family members, colleagues or my partner

I am very critical of myself

My confidence is easily shaken

I often say something stupid

I know I am not perfect, but I do very well with what I have

I seldom feel that I am good enough

I seem to be consistently disappointed in myself

I feel that others do things much better than I do

I feel that people like to talk with me

I feel inferior to other people

I take proper care of myself by eating a healthy diet, getting enough exercise, and balancing work, rest and play in my life

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